Karma.... His or mine?

OK so here it goes… I need help my relationship has been over for a month now…I am over the hurt and by all means I don’t want the drama… but I have a problem. In my room I have half of his gear, his ACU’s, his Class A’s, little mementos, and a lot of paperwork and stuff like that because he is in Iraq and unable to come get his stuff… Now I have been told by some family members that I should throw it away because that’s his karma for breaking my heart but then I have some friends that tell me that would be bad karma to me to do him dirty like that since I should be the bigger person therefore I don’t receive the bad karma to me…But would it be bad karma to me if I did toss his shit out? I am sick of looking at it and I don’t need reminders of him and all the hurt he has caused me like I said I am over it but I feel it a little each time I see his stuff….What should I do?

But part of me thinks this might be my karma…I mean the hurt because I never truly let guys I dated in… I always guarded myself and pulled away when they got too close… left guys without really saying why.. Could this be my karma? Man I need help lol no really I do I need some outside input on what I should do…

Someone please help me….If you think you can…